Relationship Dynamics

Let's talk relationship dynamics 🌟

I meet so many people who have endured difficult relationships throughout their lives, many stemming from childhood, followed by a similar behaviour mirrored through romantic relationships or friendships.

Difficult relationships are never just by chance, and often coincide with huge soul lessons.

How many of you have noticed a pattern in people's behaviour that may mirror a parent?

We all incarnate with our Soul families and we each hold our own contract, full of experiences and relationship patterns that will provide the opportunity to 'tick off' our lessons, in order to neutralise any energetic karma, or to show us what we need to work through.

We end up resenting those closest to us and pulling away as we just cannot understand their way of being, nor their behaviour that's presented to us, and we give up the fight as it just seems like we will never get through to them.

Once you understand that away from your physical being, you are merely two souls assisting eachother, then it brings a new understanding, and it can take some of the frustration away. Often, if you can't understand the parental dynamic that you've grown with, then a similar behaviour will come from a romantic partner or best friend.

Lessons will continue to repeat until you gain a certain level of understanding, that it is all to assist you.

How many of you had/have a very difficult parent-child dynamic, and have become a much better parent for it? You knew that you didn't want to repeat the behaviour that you endured, and so you made it your mission to become more than what you received?

That right there is a very common reason for this type of relationship dynamic, one that serves a great purpose.

Whilst you can't bear to offer up any type of forgiveness for seemingly untoward behaviour, just know that on a Soul level, all is playing out exactly as it's meant to.

Narcissistic patterns also tie in with this, and so you may find that if you had a parent with these qualities, then you'll find them in a partner too.

Sometimes it's not about 'fixing' the relationship, it's about putting boundaries in place, which often follows on to romantic relationships.

No behaviour or pattern is ever random, and it will always show something within you that needs working on.

It's never really about the other person, it's about how you respond, react, and make choices moving forwards. Always pull the focus back to you and dig deep to find out what is triggering you and try to understand why. It's often not the obvious, and you need to look beyond the surface. Every single behaviour that comes your way, is showing you something that needs addressing.